Anonymous from Augusta, GA said:
What's the best way to approach a guy about his performance without hurting his ego?
LOL this is a tough one Fellas!
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First things first i can't speak for my gender as a whole, but i am pretty sure about 85%to90% should feel this way. Lets be clear since most guys sexual performance and thier ego are joined at the hip [or a little lower]it is virtually impossible to approach us on something about our performance that you feel needs work without bruising our ego. The amount of bruising however depends on the approach you take and topic of your complaint. Be sensible,
ReplyDeletetelling a man something he does not want to hear about that is equal to you being out to eat and just as your about to give your order to the waiter your man says maybe you should have a salad. so there are ways to go about having this discussion with him but it all depends on the complaint you have[is it something he can fix without extenz]So i guest the jist of it is the approach you take depends on the complaint you have. Caution ladies it's a minefield!!!
Just tell him the truth, if he is a secure man he should be able to handle it). Or act like you want to try something new. And if its a stamina thing you should tell him you were thinking about joining a gym or, you would like to go jogging. If you dont have a good level of communication in a relationship then you will not be able to talk about intimate issues. So i think it starts with trusting each other and respecting each others feelings. A better performance works out for both partners so. Personally i have definitly given women pointers on how to pleasure me and i ask them what works for them. Every relationship is different so you always have to adjust. Some people are lazy, and some are selfish and you may never be able to approach the subject or solve the problem...thats when its time to move on and find somewhere else to get your groove on.
ReplyDeleteFrom a guy's perspective, most of us would like to be told the truth. In that sense we can take a step back, analyze the situation and approach in a different and hopefully better manner. If we're not living up to what you are expecting let us know, as oppose to just letting us continue our "lacking" performance. Which only leads us to walk around with an unearned smile on our face.
ReplyDeleteSee ladies we learn something new every day. We jusr have to be nice!
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