Anonymous from Brooklyn said:
Why do some women have these unreal expectations and check lists for men when they're not even bringing ANYTHING to the table?
I surely have an answer for that LOL but I'll let someone else answer first. Ladies???????
Like this WTF are you serious?????
http://mediatakeout.com/mobile/content/?view=44455
hummmmmmmmm, a set of penny's seeking silver dollars. But seriously, I think its Laziness and the desire of having it without really working for it.
ReplyDeleteYes Mz. Tee laziness but let's keep it 100. Sometimes when a female is attractive she feels that her looks are enough to bring to the table. It's not completely her fault though because she will always have some trick young or old who is satisfied with just eye candy. So anonymous you might not be that trick but there are plenty of them out there. We should definitely look for a partner that makes us better and motivates us to be more ambitious.
ReplyDeleteWe don't have unreal expectations or check lists. Wanting certain qualities in man helps in establishing a foundation in which a relationship can flourish. Who wants to play games when you reach a certain age? Ofcourse the other person should have something contribute.
ReplyDeleteWell being 100, I will say that any woman in her right mature mind who feels like her looks are enough to bring to a table to a man that has it together financially, educationally & physically is not only in DENIAL but also very misguided and very mature.
ReplyDeleteAnd truth be told, most men (mature together men) are not even really about a woman edu, finance & physical. The real mature men from my experience goes alot deeper.
meant to say "very NOT mature"
ReplyDelete@ Karimah he's not talking about the women who have every right to demand certain things in a man. He's asking about the ones who don't have much to offer themselves and are expecting a prince charming in return. We know there are a lot of them out there. It's like the guy who is still living with his mother and had the nerve to hang a check list up in a phone booth. Nah homie it doesn't work like that. I'm going to find the story and post it.
ReplyDeleteLMAO @ Fancy hahahhahahhaah ROTFF smh
ReplyDeleteLMAO! Guys are starting to get like that too it's crazy
ReplyDeleteOh yes they are. The ones who the worst I think is the ones with some what of a body and looks. They straight demanding financials, 9/10 they jobless and looking for place to stay rent free and eat free and get taken care off by a woman. LMAO
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ReplyDeleteLMFAO @ Mz. Tee I'm so done LOL
ReplyDeleteLadies I hear ya'll but as a man not speaking for all men but me personally all want is a real woman who can hold you down thru the good and the bad looks only last so long if I don't like being around you I don't care if your Halle Berry it's not gonna work but women these days always want a man with all of these qualities and don't even respect when a man is griding and progressing towards certain things it's all for the moment what can you do right now that's no way to build a foundation, I know we have to do better as men in treating a good woman the way they should be,but ya'll also gotta do better in supporting ya man and letting his dreams fall into place...team work makes the dream work and let's be real ladies you want a man with certain physical attributes you better look in the mirror and real with yaself I'm just saying!!! thats why we get on and leave ya ss for a white girl!!! lmao
ReplyDelete@ Anonymous I was with you until the white girl comment. I totally agree that some women need to take a step back and look @ themselves a little longer. Women as a whole because this def isn't a color thing. We love EVERYBODY @ Oufancy! :0)
ReplyDeleteAnonymous got it twisted, white females are no different....they just have a different style about they ish. IJS. Overall most ppl talk about bring to the table but it all depends on what you are looking for on your table. I doubt there is anyone person, male or female who can say they got all that they want at their table. Life is all about compromise. For many ppl once one of their requirements is missing they dismiss the ones that are present also.
ReplyDeleteTruthfully it really does come down to what is primary and secondary to one's table. I can't speak for all females but personally I may not have the physical & the finance (don't make six figures) but I have the education, I am that woman who is more than willing to pick up a bat and play on my man's team, I am willing to follow his lead and trust that together we will get where we need to be, I will believe in my man and have confidence in his decision-making abilities, and be on board with his ideas that are exciting and full of promise and be supportive. But my person might not want those for his table.
For many men they want Halle or they want the bombshell body, or the company head making major money or the PhD holder, or the freak or the support or the bitch. It just all depends on the individual and same goes for females.
Yes Mz Tee! It's all about who you're dealing with. Like you said no one is perfect and as an adult you have to know your worth and know that some things aren't that important. You might not find someone who meets ALL of you're requirements. As a couple you should grow together.
ReplyDeleteAMEN Mz Fancy!!!!
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